Los Angeles
Launching Rosh Hashanah 2026
Meet a Jew
who is truly for you.
Shalom is a new digital Jewish dating experience for people in and around Los Angeles who want more than endless swiping, shallow profiles, and conversations that go nowhere.
Completely free. No subscriptions, no hidden fees, no ads, ever.
How Shalom works
Five steps to a better match.
No swiping, no guessing, no games. Shalom is designed to understand you — then introduce you to someone who actually fits.
Create your profile
Sign up, share the basics, and tell us what you are looking for in a partner and a future.
Verify your identity
Upload a photo ID and a few photos for review. It keeps the community safe and trustworthy.
Answer the questionnaire
A private, self-guided questionnaire about your values, lifestyle, goals, and relationship style.
Receive curated matches
Get a curated number of thoughtful introductions, each with an explanation of why they might fit.
Connect intentionally
When there is mutual interest, start chatting with personalized conversation starters and take it from there.
We get to know you first
A short profile, then a private self-guided questionnaire about your lifestyle, values, preferences, and the future you actually want.
A profile beneath the profile
Your deeper answers stay private and are used only to find people who genuinely belong in that future.
Introductions, not a feed
Each week you receive thoughtful introductions — each one explained, so you know why before you say hello.
Dating apps show you more people. Shalom helps you find the right person.
Most apps ask for a few photos, a short bio, and your preferred distance. But compatibility is not that simple. Shalom asks deeper questions — some shape your public profile, others stay private and are used only to improve your matches.
The person you build a life with should be chosen based on more than a photograph and three prompts.
- Jewish identity and values
- Marriage and family goals
- Communication and conflict
- Emotional availability
- Attachment and relationship patterns
- Career, lifestyle, and ambition
- Religious practice and traditions
- Where you are in life right now
Fewer matches. Better reasons.
Shalom is not designed to keep you swiping. You receive a limited number of thoughtful introductions based on the qualities that matter most to you.
You will not just see that someone is a match. You will understand why.
- Your estimated compatibility
- The values and goals you share
- Where you may complement each other
- Differences worth understanding
- Personalized conversation starters
Your public profile is only part of the story.
People are complicated. You may be outgoing but need emotional reassurance. Deeply connected to Judaism but flexible about religious practice. Ready for marriage but unwilling to rush into the wrong relationship. A traditional dating profile cannot capture that.
Shalom builds a deeper, private understanding of each member — a profile beneath the profile — to find meaningful compatibility without publishing your most personal answers. Your private information is never shown to other members. It is used to make better introductions.
Your data is yours. Period.
Shalom is built on trust. You decide what other members see, and we never treat your personal information as a product.
You control public and private.
Your profile shows only what you choose to share. Deeper questionnaire answers — such as substance use, political views, and intimate relationship preferences — stay private by default and are used only to improve your matches. You can review and update your answers at any time.
We do not distribute your data.
Shalom will never publish, sell, lend, rent, or otherwise distribute your personal data to anyone. We do not share information with advertisers, data brokers, or third-party marketers. Your information is used only to help you find meaningful matches within Shalom.
We use industry-standard security practices, restrict internal access, and only keep the data needed to operate the service. If you ever want to delete your account or export your information, you can.
Built for Jewish relationships.
Jewish dating is about more than checking a box marked “Jewish.” It can involve family, tradition, community, Israel, holidays, religious practice, culture, identity, marriage, and the kind of home you hope to create. Shalom gives those questions the attention they deserve.
Whether you are observant, secular, traditional, culturally Jewish, Israeli, Persian, Ashkenazi, Sephardi, or still discovering what Judaism means to you, Shalom is designed to understand the role Jewish life plays in the future you want.
Know more before you say hello.
When two people express mutual interest, Shalom helps start the conversation. Instead of an empty chat window and another “Hey,” you get personalized conversation ideas drawn from your shared interests, experiences, and values. The goal is not to keep you messaging forever — it is to help you decide whether you should meet.
Designed for people who are ready.
Shalom is for Jewish singles serious about a meaningful relationship — even if they are still figuring out exactly what it should look like. It is for people willing to answer honestly, date intentionally, and give the right person a real chance. It is not built for collecting matches. It is built for creating relationships.
Completely free. Always.
Shalom will never charge a subscription fee, sell premium tiers, or hide your best matches behind a paywall. We believe everyone deserves access to thoughtful, intentional Jewish dating — without worrying about costs.
You are more than a profile.
The person you are looking for is, too. Let Shalom get to know you — and introduce you to someone worth knowing.